No TV Day!

It’s kind of funny. Like we need a media brand to tell us to switch off our televisions and spend quality time with loved ones.  It’s a noble initiative. But how subservient have we become? Whatever happened to Free Will! I haven’t had a television in my home for over a year now. Even when I did have one, it wasn’t used much. An occasional travel program or an adventure reality show and it used to be back to books.

I am often asked by friends about how I spend my time without a television. Really? Does it seem that daunting? Millions across the world still don’t have televisions in their house and they are doing fine, thank you. As for me, I read, I listen to music, I cook,  I go for walks, I call up friends, I write in my journal, I draw, I blog, I do stuff around the house that people don’t seem to do any more. I iron my own clothes, and do all my grocery and vegetables shopping myself.  And I have never ever missed having a television in my home. Nope, not even once.

Mumbai, in particular, has a whole parallel culture thing happening wherein people have loads to do. There is something interesting happening almost every week. I prefer to be a part of that instead. Not that television does not have it’s own merits. I am sure there are some, though right now I can’t think of any.  But millions watch it, so it must have something to it. It doesn’t intrigue me, and so it’s not a part of my life. But if you are a regular television viewer, please don’t wait for such”initiatives” to turn your back to the Idiot Box. Do it once in a while for your own sanity.

It’s healthy to just be dealing with your own life’s issues rather than worrying about the falling marriage of a fictitious character who does a Mother India to perfection while sporting neck-breaking jewellery 24 hours of the day. While I love stories, I don’t think they should be taken too seriously. I cringe when women continue to talk about the Soap Queens long after the television show is off air. Read some more, and you will find loads more interesting stuff to discuss and discover. It will bring you closer  to people who are important in your life. It will give depth and dimension to your relationship. So while I am not asking you to bid adieu to that television set, it won’t hurt to give it a long break every now and then. Your Soap Queens are not going anywhere soon.

  • I secretly would love to be without a tv. And I think I will one day, but right now a little bit of tv time after a long day of grad school classes is precisely what I need.

  • pratishthadurga

    Brandi, a little bit of anything is a good thing. In small doses, television
    is indeed a great escape. but to become so addicted to it that you miss out
    on all the other things that life has to offer, now that would be a
    problem.

  • Som

    well, in all honesty, there is the other side - nat geo and discovery and history....stuff that is as good as books, the other day my son saw his first view of the milky way on some super universe program that they were doing on SBS australia, and he gets to see ALL kinds of animals on steve irwin's wildlife shows....so I think its not the thing itself that is to blame, but the way you use it - I mean you can have bottles of wine in your house, and drink a glass of wine with your dinner for pleasure, or you can become a drunk or an addict, the choice is yours. Som. (I abhor the ekta kapoor type serials though, she has done too much damage already, so completely with you on that).

  • Pratishtha Durga

    Som, I am with you on that. Unfortunately, like alcohol, TV too is defined by its larger use by the masses. There is a very small number of people who use it for purposes other than storm their brains with no-brainers. I believe that the idiot box is single-handedly responsible for the dumbing down of an entire nation. The story telling process has been damaged beyond recognition because of one woman's greed. So yes, for me what works is no TV at all. Never been fond of it. But then again, never been fond of tea, coffee, aerated drinks, alcohol, drugs, OTC medicines and martyr complex women either.

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